Four Days: New Orleans

New Orleans isn’t just Bourbon Street and Mardi Gras—it’s a city full of music, food, culture, and LGBTQ charm. Whether you’re a foodie, history buff, or queer traveler looking for authentic experiences, NOLA has many versions of itself I’ve loved.

Four Days: Washington DC

Washington, DC is more than monuments and museums—it’s a vibrant mix of culture, food, and unexpected fun. Whether I’m in town for work or play, I always find something new to love. This isn’t your typical DC travel guide—just one gay traveler’s personal take on what makes the city worth coming back to.

Alaska Access: 1st (and 2nd) Impressions

In March 2024, Alaska Airlines unveiled their Alaska Access subscription program. I can only presume this was to celebrate the beginning of spring with a new revenue opportunity program frequent fliers didn’t really know they wanted or needed. Ok, fine. I bit. I first wrote this post in March 2024 and I’ve updated it as […]

Quick Take: Missoula

Missoula, Montana might not be a typical vacation spot, but it’s one I’ve grown to love through family visits and repeated exploration. With its small-town charm, natural beauty, and welcoming vibe, Missoula offers a refreshing escape—especially if you’re looking for a low-key, relatively LGBTQ-friendly getaway in the Mountain West.

Weekend: Palm Springs

Palm Springs has been a favorite of mine for over 20 years—and it’s easy to see why. With its sunny weather, queer-friendly vibe, and endless options for relaxation or adventure, the desert city offers something for every kind of traveler, especially for LGBTQ folks and during the busy winter season.

Five Tips to Help Smooth Air Travel Wrinkles

Oh wow. This post I wrote in December 2023 didn’t age well. Or maybe it was a sign. I don’t know. What I do know is that when 25% of your go-to airline’s fleet is grounded for safety inspections, cancellations are rough and rebooking options are less than ideal (a gross understatement). With the benefit […]

4+ Great Day Trips from Portland

Despite what some recent news might lead folks to believe, Portland, Oregon is a great spot to visit (or in my case: live). Yes, Portland has experienced a few issues the last several years including some things that made dramatic headlines, but there’s still plenty of wonderful sights, bites, and things to do with a […]

One Week: Los Cabos, Mexico

Sun-soaked and proudly welcoming, Cabo San Lucas and San José del Cabo—together known as Los Cabos—offers a mix of beach relaxation, fresh seafood, and vibrant coastal culture. I’ve found Cabo to be a welcoming, easy, rejuvenating destination to unwind, explore at the southern tip of Baja California. (Updated 12/2025)

Five Ways to Find New Adventures

Craving a more authentic travel experience? Skip some of the tourist traps and find ways to explore a new city like a local. From hidden gems to off-the-beaten-path adventures, here’s five tips to help you create a more memorable travel itinerary—without relying on the typical top-10 lists.

Atmos Rewards: Decrypting Upgrades on Alaska Air

It’s no secret I love to travel, and being in front of the curtain makes it even better. It’s great to reap the benefits of elite frequent-flyer perks like free upgrades, but they’re not always as easy to decipher as one might hope. Here’s my best attempt (updated August 2025) to share what I’ve learned […]