Weekend: Palm Springs

Palm Springs has been a favorite of mine for over 20 years—and it’s easy to see why. With its sunny weather, queer-friendly vibe, and endless options for relaxation or adventure, the desert city offers something for every kind of traveler, especially for LGBTQ folks and during the busy winter season.

Five Tips to Help Smooth Air Travel Wrinkles

Oh wow. This post I wrote in December 2023 didn’t age well. Or maybe it was a sign. I don’t know. What I do know is that when 25% of your go-to airline’s fleet is grounded for safety inspections, cancellations are rough and rebooking options are less than ideal (a gross understatement). With the benefit […]

4+ Great Day Trips from Portland

Despite what some recent news might lead folks to believe, Portland, Oregon is a great spot to visit (or in my case: live). Yes, Portland has experienced a few issues the last several years including some things that made dramatic headlines, but there’s still plenty of wonderful sights, bites, and things to do with a […]

One Week: Los Cabos, Mexico

Sun-soaked and proudly welcoming, Cabo San Lucas and San José del Cabo—together known as Los Cabos—offers a mix of beach relaxation, fresh seafood, and vibrant coastal culture. I’ve found Cabo to be a welcoming, easy, rejuvenating destination to unwind, explore at the southern tip of Baja California. (Updated 12/2025)

Five Ways to Find New Adventures

Craving a more authentic travel experience? Skip some of the tourist traps and find ways to explore a new city like a local. From hidden gems to off-the-beaten-path adventures, here’s five tips to help you create a more memorable travel itinerary—without relying on the typical top-10 lists.

Atmos Rewards: Decrypting Upgrades on Alaska Air

It’s no secret I love to travel, and being in front of the curtain makes it even better. It’s great to reap the benefits of elite frequent-flyer perks like free upgrades, but they’re not always as easy to decipher as one might hope. Here’s my best attempt (updated August 2025) to share what I’ve learned […]

One Week: Maui

Maui is one of my all-time favorite travel destinations. Read on for my favorite places to visit, personal tips, and must-do activities for a diverse mix of ideas to fit any length of stay.

Ten Days: Norway

From exploring fjords and charming villages to indulging in Oslo’s incredible food scene, Norway delivered unforgettable moments. Our 10-day journey started in Bergen during the festive celebration of Syttende Mai and ended in Oslo and was filled with personal history, cultural insight, and breathtaking landscapes.

Outtake: Tel Aviv Pride 🏳️‍🌈 🏳️‍⚧️

Tel Aviv could be considered the gay heart of the Middle East. But it’s not just because of the repressive culture and politics of its neighbors. Tel Aviv felt like one of the most welcoming and celebratory places I’ve been, especially as a destination for gay pride (check out my notes about other pride events […]

Five Days: Tel Aviv

The rich culture and history—and the food—of the Middle East put the region on my travel bucket list some time ago. As a gay traveler, though, I’ve had concerns about safety and whether I’d feel welcome or comfortable (and I’m not the only one, obviously). Cue Tel Aviv, and more specifically, Tel Aviv’s gay pride […]