Weekend: Portland, Oregon

Playing tourist in my own city for a weekend in Portland is always a good time—it’s the perfect way to stumble upon new spots or fall back in love with old favorites. Warning: this post has a long list of personal faves!

Quick Take: Phoenix

Almost every city has something to love, and Phoenix is no exception. If you know where to look, you’ll find a surprisingly rich cultural scene, excellent hiking trails, and quick access to parks—both national and local. I’ll admit it: I don’t love Phoenix. The summer heat can feel like the surface of the sun, and […]

Weekend: Las Vegas

Las Vegas sparks strong opinions, but as an LGBTQ traveler, I’ve found joy in the in-between. It’s not my favorite destination, yet I’ve had amazing experiences both on and off the Strip. The key? Focus on what excites you—like drag shows, LGBTQ bars, or chill pool days—and skip what doesn’t.

Quick Take: Orange County (but not Disney)

While Anaheim is best known for Disneyland, I found plenty to enjoy beyond the parks. With sunshine, local flavor, and queer-friendly spots, Orange County surprised me—in good ways. Sometimes, tagging along on a work trip leads to unexpected adventures.

Four Days: New Orleans

New Orleans isn’t just Bourbon Street and Mardi Gras—it’s a city full of music, food, culture, and LGBTQ charm. Whether you’re a foodie, history buff, or queer traveler looking for authentic experiences, NOLA has many versions of itself I’ve loved.

Four Days: Washington DC

Washington, DC is more than monuments and museums—it’s a vibrant mix of culture, food, and unexpected fun. Whether I’m in town for work or play, I always find something new to love. This isn’t your typical DC travel guide—just one gay traveler’s personal take on what makes the city worth coming back to.

Quick Take: Missoula

Missoula, Montana might not be a typical vacation spot, but it’s one I’ve grown to love through family visits and repeated exploration. With its small-town charm, natural beauty, and welcoming vibe, Missoula offers a refreshing escape—especially if you’re looking for a low-key, relatively LGBTQ-friendly getaway in the Mountain West.

Weekend: Palm Springs

Palm Springs has been a favorite of mine for over 20 years—and it’s easy to see why. With its sunny weather, queer-friendly vibe, and endless options for relaxation or adventure, the desert city offers something for every kind of traveler, especially for LGBTQ folks and during the busy winter season.

4+ Great Day Trips from Portland

Despite what some recent news might lead folks to believe, Portland, Oregon is a great spot to visit (or in my case: live). Yes, Portland has experienced a few issues the last several years including some things that made dramatic headlines, but there’s still plenty of wonderful sights, bites, and things to do with a […]

One Week: Maui

Maui is one of my all-time favorite travel destinations. Read on for my favorite places to visit, personal tips, and must-do activities for a diverse mix of ideas to fit any length of stay.